
NBC is searching for LGBT couples. Marriage Ref is Jerry Seinfeld's brand new comedy series for
NBC and will be coming to Thursday nights in March. We will be featuring married couples of all ages, walks of life and backgrounds.
The show is about settling marital issues with humor and I feel this will be a great opportunity and a lot of fun for everyone
involved! I have included a link to the NBC preview below. If anyone is interested in interviewing for the casting they can
reach me at Realityshownbc@gmail.com Please include your phone number, photo, and a short description of an argument they need settled.
CHECK OUT THE SHOW: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z62QApi_yBA

Exciting news for downtown Hilo Two new places have open for HIV / AIDS testing. Hawaii
Island Pride Project LGBT Community Center is teaming up with “John from
Hawaii Island HIV/AIDS Foundation will be offering FREE and ANONYMOUS
HIV and Hepatitis-C testing on the first Saturday of every Month. The
HIV test is an oral test so no needles are involved, the
hepatitis-C test is a finger prick like that of a diabetes test.” Don’t forget… “Aids does not Discriminate”. “Get out, Get involved & Get the word out”. Daily HIV
/ AIDS Testing Monday – Friday 10am to 4pm Hawaii
State Department of Health Waiakea Health Center 191 Kuawa Street, Hilo, HI 96720 808-974-4247 Please call for an appointment. Walk-ins welcome The center also offers STD and Hepatitis information and resources. Monthly HIV / AIDS Testing 1st Saturday of Every Month 10 am to 3 pm Hawaii Island Pride Project LGBT Community Outreach Center 301
Keawe Street, Hilo, HI 96720 808-935-5566 www.hawaiiislandprideproject.com FREE and ANONYMOUS HIV and Hepatitis-C testing. The HIV test is an oral test so no needles are involved, the hepatitis-C test is a finger prick like that of a diabetes test.” The center has information on prevention and screening for HIV /AIDS, STD’s, Hepatitis, Same Sex Domestic Violence.

Report: Semenya has male, female sex organsAssociated PressSYDNEY
(AP) - The IAAF declined to confirm a Sydney Morning Herald report that world 800-meter champion Caster Semenya has male and
female sex organs. IAAF spokesman Nick Davies says the group has received the results of Semenya's
gender tests, but he would not discuss the findings. "I simply haven't seen the results," Davies wrote in
an e-mail to The Associated Press. "We have received the results from Germany, but they now need to be examined by a
group of experts and we will not be in a position to speak to the athlete about them for at least a few weeks. "After
that, depending on the results, we will meet privately with the athlete to discuss further action." The Australian
newspaper reported in its Friday edition that medical reports on the 18-year-old Semenya indicate she has no ovaries, but
rather has internal male testes, which are producing large amounts of testosterone. Davies said the report should be
treated with caution. After dominating her race at the world championships in Berlin last month, Semenya was given
blood and chromosome tests, as well as a gynecological examination. The IAAF has said Semenya probably would keep her
medal because the case was not related to a doping matter. "Our legal advice is that, if she proves to have an
advantage because of the male hormones, then it will be extremely difficult to strip the medal off her, since she has not
cheated," Davies wrote to the AP. "She was naturally made that way, and she was entered in Berlin by her team and
accepted by the IAAF. But let's wait and see once we have the final decision." The South African Press Association
reported Athletics South Africa president Leonard Chuene had not been informed of any reports by the IAAF. "These
are insulting words that the media are using, but we are in the dark," SAPA quoted Chuene as telling The Star newspaper.
"We just don't know what effect this information will have on her deep down. This process is not correct."

View From Washington: Ted Kennedy Sen. Ted Kennedy's unfaltering
devotion to the LGBT community during the AIDS crisis typified the wealth of humanity he offered to all. By
Kerry Eleveld An Advocate.com exclusive posted August 28, 2009 Memorializing
a man regularly referred to as a “giant” is a nearly impossible task. But nothing says more to me about the character
of the late Sen. Edward M. Kennedy than the way he stood with the LGBT community at the outset of the AIDS epidemic.
When Kennedy took over the chairmanship of the Senate Health, Education, Labor, and Pensions Committee in 1987, our
nation’s political elite had all but ignored AIDS for the bulk of the decade. In the intervening years between July 1981,
when The New York Times ran its first article on the disease, and June 1987, when Ronald Reagan gave his first speech
on the subject, more than 20,000 people had already died of AIDS in the United States. Kennedy made AIDS a top priority
in the Health committee, helped to secure $1.2 million in funding for AIDS research in 1988, and introduced and ultimately
passed what became known as the Ryan White CARE Act, the largest federal program to provide critical medical treatment for
people living with AIDS. But Kennedy’s contributions were as notable for what he blocked as for what he
passed. “What people don't understand unless they were there during the darkest days in the '80s,” recalls
LGBT activist David Mixner, “is that he stopped amendment after amendment proposed by [North Carolina senator] Jesse
Helms -- some of the most draconian, hateful amendments imaginable.” From measures that would have criminalized
health care workers who knew they were HIV-positive and failed to tell their patients before surgery to allowing doctors to
test patients for HIV without consent to criminalizing blood donations from HIV-positive people, Ted Kennedy was there to
slay them all. “One thing I have to say, we talk about how Clinton let us down on DOMA and ‘don’t
ask, don’t tell,’ and now we're eight months into Obama and we haven’t gotten jack from him -- Ted Kennedy
never let us down. Ever!” says Mixner. STORY CONTINUES

Do you want same-sex
marriage or same-sex civil unions in Hawaii? Then please get more involved by signing
up on the Family Equality Coalition website. This organization is actively involved in lobbying for new legislation in Hawaii
to enable Same-Sex Civil Unions and/or Same-Sex Civil Marriage. Note, you do not need to be a registered voter in Hawaii to
become a member of the Family Equality Coalition, and there is no membership fee.

Hugh Hefner, Gay Rights Pioneer By Michelle Garcia An
upcoming documentary about Playboy founder Hugh Hefner reveals information about his earlier years, including his
early advocacy for gay inclusiveness. When Esquire rejected a science-fiction short story by Charles Beaumont
that depicted a world where heterosexuals were in the minority, Hefner accepted the piece and published it in a 1955 edition
of Playboy, then still a relatively new publication. After letters of outrage at Beaumont's "The
Crooked Man" poured in, Hefner addressed readers. "If it was wrong to persecute heterosexuals in a homosexual society,"
he wrote in response, "then the reverse was wrong, too." Even now, the twice-divorced 83-year-old entrepreneur,
famous for his numerous romantic exploits over the years, tells The Daily Beast that gay marriage isn't hurting anyone. "Without question, love in its various permutations is what we need more
of in this world," he said. "The idea that the concept of marriage will be sullied by same-sex marriage is ridiculous.
Heterosexuals haven't been doing that well at it on their own." The documentary, Hugh Hefner: Playboy, Activist
and Rebel, will premiere at the Toronto International Film Festival in September.

Utah Gov.: No Protected Class for LGBT People By Julie Bolcer Utah
governor Gary Herbert (pictured) said on Thursday that he does not believe sexual orientation should be a protected class
from discrimination in the way race, gender, and religion are, reports the Associated Press. "We don't have to
have a rule for everybody to do the right thing. We ought to just do the right thing because it's the right thing to do and
we don't have to have a law that punishes us if we don't," said Herbert at a KUED news conference, according to the AP.
Herbert, a Republican who served as lieutenant governor to Jon Huntsman, took over this month after Huntsman left to
take an appointed position as U.S. ambassador to China. Last year, Huntsman supported a package of legislative proposals,
which did not pass, to protect LGBT people from discrimination. He also expressed support for same-sex civil unions.
Herbert appears to hold a different attitude. He said that naming sexual orientation as a protected class against
discrimination would put Utah on a “slippery slope” and burden the government with “minutiae.” "Where
do you stop? I mean, that's the problem going down that slippery road. Pretty soon we're going to have a special law for blue-eyed
blonds ... or people who are losing their hair a little bit," Herbert said, according to the AP. "There's some support
for about anything we put out there. I'm just saying we end up getting bogged down sometimes with the minutiae of things that
government has really no role to be involved in." Despite his statements, Herbert declined to commit to a position
on a Salt Lake City ordinance likely to be adopted that would ban discrimination against LGBT people in employment and housing.
Republicans in the state legislature have suggested they may attempt to block the ordinance.

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Synopsis
SEX POSITIVE explores the life of
Richard Berkowitz, a revolutionary gay S&M- hustler-turned-AIDS activist in the 1980s, whose incomparable contribution
to the invention of safe sex has never been aptly credited. Berkowitz emerged from the epicenter of the epidemic as a community
leader, demanding a solution to the problem before anyone else would pay attention. However, it was not Berkowitz' voice alone
that sparked contention.
Dr. Joseph Sonnabend, a controversial virologist and AIDS doctor, postulated that AIDS
was more complicated than just a new virus. With Sonnabend's theory in tow, Berkowitz fought, alongside beloved activist and
musician Michael Callen, for safer sex practices without giving up on sex altogether.
SEX POSITIVE
explores the explicit bravery of this unrecognized triumvirate, and their dire quest to save lives in the midst of unwavering
dissent. Now destitute and alone, Mr. Berkowitz tells his story to a world who never wanted to listen.
Through
the eyes of Mr. Berkowitz, the audience is made witness to a graphic testimony of sex, death, and betrayal, while placing
the invention of ‘safe sex’ in a fresh and compelling context.
Hot Sheet: Charlize, Whitney, and Sandra In this week's installment
of what's hot in entertainment, Whitney's long-awaited comeback gets us dancing in our seats, Chris Pine freaks us out in
an upcoming thriller, and the charming Mila Kunis keeps us entertained in Extract. Click the byline to view
more stories by this author. By Advocate EditorsAn Advocate.com exclusive posted August 28, 2009 Movies...
- All About Steve : It’s the year of Sandra Bullock. Just two months after Sandy had the biggest hit of her career with The
Proposal comes this gem, about a slightly off-kilter woman who crosses the country in search of a man she had one date
with. Hell, if that man were Bradley Cooper, I might just hop a bus too. But seriously, this movie runs the risk of being
too much Two If By Sea and not enough While You Were Sleeping. If All About Steve tanks, Sandy
has another chance in November to redeem herself with the football dramedy The Blind Side. - Carriers : Chances are this Invasion of the Body Snatchers–type horror flick would have never seen the light
of day had star Chris Pine not just made it big in Star Trek. Want the proof? Carriers isn't even opening
in New York or Los Angeles. But if you're in Boston or Phoenix, now's your chance to see Pine in action -- as he looked in
2006, when this film was made. - Extract : The man who brought you Office Space is back with another "fucked-up work experience" comedy,
complete with Jason Bateman doing his standard bumbling everyman, Ben Affleck in some truly tacky extensions, and Mila Kunis,
cleavage to the heavens, as the sexy new girl. Best-looking bit of this movie: Sordid Lives/Donnie Darko star Beth
Grant (she of "Sparkle Motion" fame) as the loud-mouthed assembly line employee.

Are Video Games Getting Gayer? While gay representation in video games
is decades behind TV and film -- some argue games haven't yet had their Birdcage, let alone their Brokeback
-- a few new games have the potential to change everything. An Advocate.com exclusive posted August 26, 2009 Video games have grown up a
lot in the last few years, “but we still haven’t seen the kind of normalization [of LGBT characters and story
lines] that we’ve seen in movies and on TV for some time,” laments Brenda Brathwaite, a veteran game designer
and the author of Sex in Video Games. “We still haven’t had our Brokeback Mountain moment.”
Actually, it could be argued -- and quite convincingly -- that video games haven’t yet had their Birdcage
moment. After all, the few LGBT characters and story lines that find their way into today’s titles tend to showcase
stereotypes that haven’t been big-screen staples for a few decades. Still, gay gamers are given more to work
with than they were in the past. Case in point: Persona 4, a role-playing game released late last year for the PlayStation
2. The title features what many consider the first character in a mainstream video game to confront his homosexuality in a
realistic and meaningful manner. Another recent release, Fable II for the Xbox 360, takes things a few steps further
by allowing players to hit on, have sex with, and even marry members of the same gender. “That’s a fantasy
that hasn't been fully realized in the real world,” says David Edison, an editor at GayGamer.net. So not only is the title ahead of the times in terms of video games, “it's ahead of the actual times.” The
medium should make even more strides this fall when Grand Theft Auto: The Ballad of Gay Tony is released for the Xbox 360.
Although no one outside the offices of developer Rockstar North knows how much gay content will make it into the game -- only
the titular Tony is a given at this point -- Edison believes it will be groundbreaking nonetheless. “Whether
they’re gay or straight or black or white,” he says, gamers “will see the word gay every time they
look at [the title].” STORY CONTINUES
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ll HEALTH & WELLNESS ll Let’s Talk About Sex… The Advocates: Expert advice on life
-- as you live it. Click the byline to view more stories by this author. Dr. Frank SpinelliFrom The Advocate Why it’s vital to get personal
with your doctor. One particularly angry gay man once said to me, “What goes on in my bedroom is none
of my doctor’s &#@$ business.” I couldn’t disagree more. Sure, talking to a doctor about sex, particularly
as a gay patient, can be embarrassing, but our sexuality is the primary basis for the differences in the health care needs
of heterosexuals and gay people. Certainly, the ongoing AIDS crisis has taught us to be mindful of our health care concerns
associated with sex, but doctors and researchers now know other ways in which our needs are unique; mental health -- as evidenced
by the study from the Journal of Health and Social Behavior -- is of special concern as well. The health care
of gays and lesbians should be culturally sensitive to their needs. To that end, I’ll be deciphering some of the more
confusing medical jargon in the news -- and pharmaceutical advertising -- in the coming months. I also welcome the opportunity
to answer your health-related questions. Knowledge is power, and it’s my goal to help arm you with that power. Positive
Thinking A study published in the December 2008 Journal of Health and Social Behavior found that gay
men who feel sexually undesirable are more likely to engage in risky sexual practices, and their sexual partners are more
apt to insist on not using condoms. Meanwhile, men who have a healthy body image are more likely to insist on safer sex. The
study shows a clear link between mental states and sexual behavior. Given the emphasis many gay men place on physical appearance,
this study demonstrates the vital importance of cultivating a strong sense of self-worth. If you feel you have knowingly put
yourself at risk for HIV and other STDs because of low self-esteem, speak to a health care professional. The Gay and Lesbian Medical Association has a directory of gay-friendly medical providers and support groups. Just for Girls? Gardasil,
the vaccine for the highly infectious human papillomavirus, has been in the news lately. The leading cause of cervical cancer
in women and a cause of anal cancer in men, HPV can be spread through shared sex toys and direct skin-to-skin contact during
vaginal, anal, and oral sex. Gardasil is currently FDA-approved only for females ages 9-26 -- but gay men and older women
(even lesbians) should talk with their doctors about getting the vaccine. The $450 for the series of injections is unlikely
to be covered by your insurance if you’re not part of the FDA-approved group, but considering the growing number of
cases of anal cancer in men and cervical cancer in women, Gardasil could be well worth the expense. Dr.
Frank Spinelli is a board-certified internist in New York City. To ask medical questions for future, e-mail health@advocate.com.




ll TRAVEL & ADVENTURE ll April 2009 Mass Migration of Stingrays
Looking like giant leaves floating in the sea; thousands
of Golden Rays are seen here gathering off the coast of Mexico. The spectacular scene was captured as the magnificent creatures
made one of their biannual mass migrations to more agreeable waters. Gliding silently beneath
the waves, they turned vast areas of blue water to gold off the northern tip of the Yucatan Peninsula. Sandra Critelli, an
amateur photographer, stumbled across the phenomenon while looking for whale sharks. She said: 'It was an unreal
image, very difficult to describe. The surface of the water was covered by warm and different shades of gold and looked like
a bed of autumn leaves gently moved by the wind.

'It's hard to say exactly how many there were,
but in the range of a few thousand' 'We were surrounded by them without seeing the edge of the school and we could see many
under the water surface too. I feel very fortunate I was there in the right place at the right time to experience nature at
its best' Measuring up to 7ft (2.1 meters) from wing-tip to wing-tip, Golden rays are also more prosaically
known as cow nose rays.
They have long, pointed pectoral fins that separate into
two lobes in front of their high-domed heads and give them a cow-like appearance. Despite having poisonous stingers, they
are known to be shy and non-threatening when in large schools. The population in
the Gulf of Mexico migrates, in schools of as many as 10,000, clockwise from western Florida to the Yucatan.
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